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Asian (Women's) Self-Help Association (ASHA)

While the issue of abuse has been a taboo subject in the South Asian community for years, a passionate non-profit organization strives to shed light to this ever-prevalent injustice. The Asian (Women's) Self-Help Association, otherwise known as ASHA, exists to serve the South Asian community as a whole, and more specifically, woman who live in the Washington metropolitan area and suffer from domestic violence. While many mainstream organizations are dedicated to offering assistance to victims of domestic and spousal violence, ASHA sets itself by providing services in various South Asian dialects to account for cultural nuances. The organization strives to empower the South Asian woman to become self-reliant and to flourish in an abuse-free environment. Having grown from a once all-volunteer team to a formally-run, paid-staff organization, ASHA has established its name and vision among the alliance of non-profits nationwide. Learn more about how ASHA has changed the lives of many suffering South Asian woman by reading our interview with Sapana Donde, President-Secretary and Board Members Rina Das and Nalini Rajguru in this week’s Non-Profit Spotlight.

Non-Profit

Asian (Women's) Self-Help Association (ASHA)

Founded

April 1989

Website

www.ashaforwomen.org

Name

Sapana Donde (SD)
President-Secretary & ASHA Board Member

Nalini Rajguru (NR)
ASHA Board Member

Rina Das (RD)
ASHA Board Member

Current residence

SD: Washington, DC
RD: Rockville, MD
NR: Great Falls, Virginia

Education

SD: Working towards Ph.D. in Clinical Psychology (expected graduation: 2008)
RD: PhD, 1987
NR: MA in Library Science, 1980

Ethnicity

South Asian

About the non-profit

Our mission is to provide the support that enables South Asian women to become self- reliant and live in an abuse-free environment.

Most notable milestones

ASHA’s key accomplishment is the quality of life that our clients are able to build for themselves.

What's the niche?

We serve the South Asian community in the U.S. Our clients are women living in the Washington metropolitan area who are victims of domestic violence. We provide culturally sensitive services to our clients in various South Asian languages, which the mainstream organizations do not have. The clients feel comfortable talking to our advocates in their own native language and they develop a trust that lasts for years until they are completely independent.

What's the biggest challenge?

Raising enough funds to meet our goals is the biggest challenge in an environment where funds are diminishing, and the number of organizations competing for those limited funds is growing. While it is not necessarily challenging to recruit volunteers, our primary difficulty continues to be figuring out ways to retain our volunteer-force.

What's in store for the future?

We plan to grow from an all-volunteer organization to a formally-run, paid-staff organization. We hope that we will have more funds to help our clients’ needs. Some day we would like to be able to offer transitional housing services for our clients. We hope for a future that will be violence-free where everyone can live with dignity and respect.

Who would you like to be contacted by?

Lawyers: immigration and family law, other domestic violence sister organizations, corporate donors, fundraisers and volunteers.

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Guiding principle of the organization

To improve the quality of life for women and their children who are oppressed and who are victims of domestic violence.

Yardstick of success

Making a difference in a woman’s life is our greatest measure of success, whether it is helping her learn English, how to ride a bus, or with major things such as visa and legal issues.

In terms of formally measuring success, we have recently adopted a method of program evaluation to monitor the progress of our clients. We have identified approximately 12-13 measurable outcomes that our clients are working towards at any given time. Examples of these outcomes include: Achieve food security; improve daily living skills; secure adequate housing; secure child care; secure immigration documentation; secure employment to maintain self-sufficiency, etc. For each of these outcomes, we track our clients’ progress according to four criteria: (1) Awareness of issue, (2) Education about issue, (3) Progress towards outcome, (4) Attained goal. We find that this serves to empower clients and to convey the message that no step forward is “too small” or “not enough.”

Goal yet to be achieved

Raise funds to hire two full-time staff members: Director of Client Services & Executive Director as well as a shelter for ASHA clients.

Best practical advice

SD: Have faith in yourself regardless of whatever obstacles or challenges come your way.

RD: Do not give up, get organized, work together as a team.

NR: Get involved in some social causes.

Knowing that we can make a difference in someone’s life and providing help, support, and a space where immigrant women can feel safe and confident in a strange foreign land – these represent the greatest motivation for all of us at ASHA.

Supportive words from families of people who you have helped

A father who was visiting the U.S. said this to one of our advocates: “We are so thankful that people like you are here in this country to help my daughter. I don’t know what would have happened to her if you did not help her.”

Role Models

All women who have the courage to fight abuse; other organizations dedicated to improving the lives of women and children

What motivated the people who started the organization?

There was a need in the community that women recognized, so they decided to start an organization in someone’s basement. The motivation was to find a way to help women who were suffering from domestic abuse alone and in silence, to help them lead a safe, violence-free life.

What keeps your organization motivated today?

The motivation really comes from our clients. When we see how the clients are able to improve their quality of life and come out of their crises with our help. That is what really keeps us going. Knowing that we can make a difference in someone’s life and providing help, support, and a space where immigrant women can feel safe and confident in a strange foreign land – these represent the greatest motivation for all of us at ASHA.

What do people in the organization like best about it?

SD: The bond of friendship and love that we as members of ASHA share with one another.

RD: The success stories of clients and their families; achieving baby steps to help our clients towards independence.

NR: ASHA’s mission and philosophy to empower women because empowering women makes a huge difference.

What do people in the organization like least about it?

SD: Struggling with the fact that we all want to do so much more for ASHA, but often are hindered by the reality that we all work full-time jobs and have family responsibilities outside of ASHA.

RD: Trying to raise money to keep the organization going.

NR: Having to defend what we do in order to counter misconceptions and misunderstanding of domestic violence; e.g., having to counter the false idea that we are “home-breakers.”

Biggest pastime outside of work for most people in your organization

We are a volunteer based organization, so this is our biggest pastime after our regular jobs.

Person most interested in meeting and why?

Any CEO or entrepreneur who is willing to donate their time and/or resources towards our cause.

Leader in business most interested in meeting and why?

Bill Gates and his wife Melinda because we admire their intellect and their passion, and their generosity towards global issues.

Interesting facts about the organization

1. We are an organization that prides ourselves on providing one-on-one, highly specialized and individualized crisis services.

2. Despite our lack of funds and resources, we continue to survive all challenges and obstacles that come our way and even emerge stronger and more dedicated than ever.

Three characteristics that best describe the organization

We are a non-hierarchical, community-oriented, all-volunteer organization.

How can our readers get involved?

Visit our website, read about our work. If you are in the DC Metro area, you can volunteer in ASHA activities, or make a donation. Contact us if you have questions or need further information.

Favorite cause (outside of yours)

SD: Advocating for victim/survivors of sexual violence – particularly marginalized survivors such as male survivors and people abused by female perpetrators; mental health issues especially developmental disabilities.

RD: Helping women improve their lives.

NR: Helping children.

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Credits

Interview by Pooja Merai
Introduction by Rupa Dev

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